The Tooth Fairy
When should the Tooth Fairy stop visiting children? Does anyone have a definitive view on this?
Our kids love Santa, fairies and all those magical things, and we’ve let the connections lapse in their own time. When Kathleen was 10 she told Dude (8) there was no such thing as Santa and he was devastated.
The same Kathleen, now aged 11, still expects the Tooth Fairy to deliver her $2 per molar. Is this profiteering? I think so, but when should it stop?
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We told Catherine that Santa was only pretend, right from the very beginning. It’s never dampened her enjoyment of him, since he now just goes into the pot with all the other characters (Wags the Dog, Dorothy the Dinosaur, etc).
Seems to me like falsely representing fiction as fact is likey to raise trust issues as well. We want our children to know that they can believe what we teach them–they shouldn’t have to reach any certain age before determining for themselves whether we were duping them or not.
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I was raised that way and feel that I missed something. I think it’s part of the magic of childhood to believe in fantasy. The trust issue only arises if you prolong the fantasy after the child suspects the truth.